Dear Reader: These are questions that were posed to our
ReformedWomen ministry. My answers are in abbreviated form
follow. I pray you will be encouraged as you read:
"When Christians become discouraged, is this what the world calls
"depression"? Where do we go for help? Will I
lose my mind? Wasn't Christ, the prophets, the disciples depressed?
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God's Word, the Bible is the guidebook for our life as Christians.
Every decision we make must be considered in light of God's Word.
When we have a matter, no matter what it is, we are to say, "What
does God's Word say on this subject?" We are always to let
God's Word shed light on everything, whether theological, practical,
or natural. It defines everything. We never let the world
define our terms. The Bible defines our terms. So when we
look at any subject matter whatsoever, it is with the light of God's
Word and prayer.
Psalm 1:1 -- "Blessed is the man who
walks not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor stands in the path of
sinners, nor sits in the seat of the scornful; but his delight is in
the law of the Lord, and in His law he mediates day and night."
Thus, as the verse above states clearly where we are to go for our
answers. Read on...
FIRST, we, as Christians, do not use the world's definition of
"depression" -- a term used with the intent of meaning
"without hope" "desperation" and "no
answer" and thus no reason to "live." That is how
a clinician would look at you if you say you are suffering depression.
But we, as Christians, are not "depressed" in this sense and
as the world terms it (i.e, psychobabble). When we say the word
depressed, the connotation to others is that we have "no
hope" and that is never the case with a believer. A
believer's hope is in Christ, his life is ordained by God for his good
and God's glory. The trials, sufferings, problems, ups and downs
of this life are what God's Word says we will have. We are
"promised" tribulation; we are promised to
"suffer" as Christians; we are promised to suffer the same
illnesses, problems of life that non-believers suffer but we are never
without hope. Many times the trials are, as God's Word says, to
"purge us" to "refine us" to break the spirit of
rebellion in our hearts. Thus, when Christ says to "rejoice
always, and again I say rejoice" it is a command and it is
teaching you, that no matter what you are suffering, you are to
rejoice. The Lord does not contradict His own Word. He
does not tell us we can be "depressed" and then ask us to
"rejoice" -- what He is saying is that in "everything
give thanks" -- so if we are discouraged, in the dumps, etc. we
are to "give thanks" "rejoice" and "praise
Him." If we do not, then we are in sin. Why is it
sin? Because He has told us to rejoice; to praise and glorify
Him; to honor Him; to submit to Him; to be empty vessels filled with
His Spirit; so if we are "centered in or man-centered" on
ourselves, our problems, our afflictions, we will not be
Christ-centered. We are to praise, honor, glorify Him IN our
afflictions. It is in our suffering that we are more like
Christ. Look at our brothers and sisters in Christ in the
Scriptures, they suffered every adversity, every trial, every torment,
every discouragement possible, but when in prison, they sang praises,
when being burned at the stake, they sang praises, when tossed into
lions dens, they sang praises and praised the God of heaven in whose
hands they were and in whose hands each breath of air was. It is
God who is in control of the events of our lives. This is the
beauty of understanding God's sovereignty in total as best as we can
in our finite minds. That HE has perfectly ordained our
life...it IS perfect. It may look terrible, confusing, hard,
difficult, painful to us, but it is PERFECT because HE, who is
PERFECT, has ordained it. Does God make a mistake? Of
course not. So when we are discouraged, we are to praise, honor,
glorify and submit our souls, bodies, minds to Him, who is a Faithful
Creator and Saviour. Look at these precious verses:
I Peter 4:19: "Wherefore let them
that suffer according to the will of God commit the keeping of their
souls to him in well doing, as unto a faithful Creator."
Psalm 119:71: "It is good for me that I have been afflicted; that
I might learn thy statutes."
Psalm 119:75: "I know, O LORD, that thy
judgments are right, and that thou in faithfulness hast afflicted
me."
SECOND, what does the Scripture mean when it says that Paul, Peter,
Elijah, Jeremiah and others saints "despaired" of life or
were downcast? What it means is the same that it means for us
today. That this life is hard, this life is NOT our life, our
life is hid in Christ; we moan to be relieved of these sinful, mortal
bodies and to be with Christ. We long for heaven and the new
heavens and earth. It means that it hurt, it was painful, and
especially in the case of Paul. But what do they all say.
They say that they rejoiced in being counted worthy to suffer for His
sake. The said it was far better to be with Christ but more
needful to be here serving Christ in the "mission" that he
had ordained for them to do. They said that they would be
"purged and brought forth as gold." Now consider these
verses:
II Cor. 4:8: "We are troubled on
every side, yet not distressed; we are perplexed, but not in despair;
Persecuted, but not forsaken; cast down, but not destroyed; Always
bearing about in the body the dying of the Lord Jesus, that the life
also of Jesus might be made manifest in our body. For we which live
are alway delivered unto death for Jesus' sake, that the life also of
Jesus might be made manifest in our mortal flesh."
Peter 5:10: "But the God of all grace, who hath called us
unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a
while, make you perfect, stablish, strengthen, settle you."
Philippians 1:29: "For unto you it
is given in the behalf of Christ, not only to believe on him, but also
to suffer for his sake."
II Thess. 1:5: "Which is a
manifest token of the righteous judgment of God, that ye may be
counted worthy of the kingdom of God, for which ye also suffer."
II Tim. 1:12: "For the which cause I
also suffer these things: nevertheless I am not ashamed: for I know
whom I have believed, and am persuaded that he is able to keep that
which I have committed unto him against that day."
II Tim. 2:12: "If we suffer, we shall
also reign with him: if we deny him, he also will deny us."
II Tim. 3:12: "Yea, and all that will live godly in Christ Jesus
shall suffer persecution."
I Peter 4:16: "Yet if any man suffer as
a Christian, let him not be ashamed; but let him glorify God on this
behalf."
Rev. 2:10: "Fear none of those things
which thou shalt suffer: behold, the devil shall cast some of you into
prison, that ye may be tried; and ye shall have tribulation ten days:
be thou faithful unto death, and I will give thee a crown of
life."
I Cor. 4:12: "And labour, working with our own hands: being
reviled, we bless; being persecuted, we suffer it."
Romans 8:17: "And if children, then heirs; heirs of God,
and joint-heirs with Christ; if so be that we suffer with him, that we
may be also glorified together."
I Cor. 12:26: "And whether one
member suffer, all the members suffer with it; or one member be
honoured, all the members rejoice with it."
THIRD: II Tim. 1:7: "For God hath not given us the
spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind"
As a believer, your heart, mind and body is kept by Christ. You
have the Holy Spirit living in you. You have a sound mind.
It is a promise of Christ and He gives us a sound mind. We do
not fear "losing" our minds or "going insane."
That would be contrary to the Word of God. It is a lie of the
devil. It is also a lie of modern psychobabble. We have a sound
mind because Christ, who is our covenant-keeping God has given it to
us and He sustains us.
FOURTH: As pertaining to Christ, Christ was never
"depressed" -- He is Almighty God and ordained everything
and in His office as Christ, our Saviour and sinbearer, was perfect.
He could not sin, He is God and incapable of sinning. He was a
"sinbearer" of OUR sins. His was afflicted for us.
He rejoiced in laying down His life and taking it up again."
It was the devil who tempted Him to throw Himself down from the temple
and "Jesus said unto him, It is written again, Thou shalt not
tempt the Lord thy God." Matthew 4:7 Jesus anguish in His
spirit was not depression, it was that He was going to the cross for
OUR sins and the separation from God that He would suffer" and
that is something that no human will ever understand, no one, except
Christ Himself, as He is the only one who could bear our sins, be
separated from God and be God and suffer hell on our behalf.
This is a huge theological matter but Jesus is God and was perfect.
He did not have a "pity party" of depression because He was
going to the cross. He came into "this world for this very
purpose." "He is the Lamb slain before the foundation
of the world." He laid down His life and raised it again.
To sum up: The bottom line for us as Christians is this.
The Word of God is our guidebook for our life. We do not use the
worlds terms or methods. The world uses the term
"depression" in covering over sin. If it is sin, it
needs to be confessed and turned away from. We are not to have
"pity parties" or wallow in discouragement. We are to
rejoice always and especially in our afflictions. Does that mean
we will not be discouraged, down, stressed? No, of course not.
But what it does mean is that we rejoice in it. We look to the
Word of God for our answers. If we cannot by ourselves apply
this, then we get help from our husband, pastor, elders and if needed,
a nouthetic counselor who counsels by the Word of God. We are
not to go to the psychobabblers of the world but men/women that God
has raised up to point us in the right direction in God's Word and to
help us get medical attention (for hormones, chemical imbalance, etc.)
if that is needed. God's Word is sufficient for "all things"
-- go to it and to Christ for your answers and you will surely find
"rest for your soul."
May Christ richly bless you and give you understanding in this
matter.
Blessings in Christ, joan
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