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Title:
"CHILDREN
TO BE EDUCATED FOR CHRIST"
Author: Unknown
"Train
up a child in the way he should go:
and when he is old, he will not depart from it."
Proverbs
22:6
"And
these words which I command you today shall be in your heart. You shall
teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you
sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when
you rise up. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall
be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts
of your house and on your gates." Deuteronomy 6:6-9
The Church of the Lord Jesus Christ was instituted in this sinful world to seek its conversion. It was said to her eighteen hundred years ago, "preach
the Gospel to every creature." Her time, talents, and resources have all been justly owed to her Lord, for this purpose. Yet, "the whole world lieth
in wickedness." Few, comparatively, have heard "the name of Jesus;" "that there is any Holy Ghost;" or that there is a God that ruleth in the earth.
In this affecting moral condition of the world, the questions are to be solemnly considered by the friends of Christ "Have we not something more to
do? Is there not some great duty which we have overlooked; some covenant which we have made with our Lord, yet unfulfilled?" And an answer will be
found, if we look upon the children of Christian parents, who have professed
to dedicate their all to God, but, to a great extent, have neglected to educate their offspring for the express purpose of serving Christ in the
advancement of his kingdom. Said a Christian mother, whose heart is deeply
interested in this subject, "I fear that many of us think that parental duty
is limited to labors for the salvation of our children; that we have prayed
for them only that they may be saved; instructed them only that they may be
saved." Infinitely important, indeed, it is, that they should be saved. But
if ardent desires for the glory of our Redeemer and the salvation of souls
glowed in our hearts like an inextinguishable flame, our most earnest
prayers from their very birth, would be, that they might not only be saved
themselves, but be instrumental in saving others.
So far as the service of Christ has been contemplated, it appears to have
been regarded as consisting of becoming a Christian; professing religion;
taking care of one's own soul, maintaining a reputable standing in the
church; wishing well to the cause of Christ; giving as much as is convenient
for its advancement; and, finally, taking a pious leave of the world to go
and be happy in heaven. Thus "one generation passeth away, and another
cometh," to live and die in the same manner. And truly the earth might
"abide for ever," and the mass of its population still lie in ruin, should
all Christians continue to live thus.
There is need, then, of an appeal to CHRISTIAN PARENTS, in view of the
present condition of the world. You give your prayers and a portion of your
money. But, as said the Christian already quoted, "What affectionate parent
does not love his children more than his money? and why should not these
living treasures be given to Christ?" This "seeking our own, not the things
which are Christ's," must cease, if the world is ever to be converted. We
must act, and teach our children to act more faithfully, according to that
Scripture, "He died for all, that they which live should not henceforth live
unto themselves, but unto him which died for them and rose again." Let us be
understood. We do not say, dedicate your children to the cause of Missions
exclusively, or to any field of benevolence. You must leave their assignment
to "the Lord of the harvest." He will appoint them to stations, public or
private; to spheres of extended or limited influence, as shall "seem good in
his sight." Your duty is to do all which is comprehended in the injunction,
"bring up your children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord;" assured
that the time will come when it will be said to you by the voice of
Providence, respecting each, "the Lord hath need of him;" and he will be led
to that station in which the Lord will he pleased to bless him. And whether
it prove a retired and lowly, or a public and eminent one, be assured of
this, he will find work enough assigned him, and responsibilities enough
laid upon him, to keep him at the footstool, seeking grace to strengthen
him, and to require the anxious and diligent employment of all his powers
while life shall last.
It is, then, an interesting inquiry, Christians Parents "What QUALIFICATIONS
will best prepare our children to be efficient servants of Christ?" There
are many—pertaining to the HEART, the MIND, and the PHYSICAL CONSTITUTION.
First of all, piety. They must fervently love Christ and his kingdom;
heartily consecrate themselves to his service; and be ready for any
self-denial, sacrifice, or work to which he may call. Eminent piety it must
be, "counting all things but loss for Christ."
Said one, now the wife of an American Missionary, "To make and receive
visits, exchange friendly salutations, attend to one's wardrobe, cultivate a
garden, read good and entertaining books, and even attend religious meetings
for one's own enjoyment,—all this does not satisfy me. I want to be where
every arrangement will have unreserved and constant reference to eternity.
On missionary ground I expect to find new and unlooked for trials and
hinderances; still, it is my choice to be there, and so far from looking
upon it as a difficult task to sacrifice my home and country, I feel as if I
should 'flee as a bird to her mountain.'"
A piety which thus glows and prays to live, labor and suffer for Christ, is
the first and grand qualification to be sought in your child. It is
necessary to act efficiently for Christ anywhere, at home or abroad; in an
elevated or a lowly sphere. The Lord Jesus has no work adapted to Christians
who live at the "poor dying rate" with which so many are content. It is all
work for them that are "strong in the grace which is in Christ Jesus," and
willing and determined to be "faithful, even unto death."
2. Intellectual qualifications. It is a great mistake of some, that moderate
qualifications will suffice for "the work of Christ." Shall Christians be
satisfied with these, in the business of the Redeemer's kingdom, when the
men of the world are not in their concerns? Be cautious of perverting
dependence upon Divine aid, by trusting to warmth of heart to compensate for
lack of knowledge. The injunction. "Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with
all thy mind," applies to the service as well as love of Him. Your child
will need a well balanced and cultivated mind, as much as a pious heart. Let
his desires to do good never be frustrated through your neglect of his
intellectual education. We are not saying, send all your sons to college,
and your daughters to female seminaries; but prepare them to deal with minds
under the dominion of sin anywhere; having intellectual qualifications not
to be despised.
3. Qualifications pertaining to the physical constitution. The interests of
religion have suffered enough through the breaking down of constitutions,
and the premature deaths of promising young men. Do not dedicate a feeble,
sickly son to the ministry because he is not sufficiently robust for some
secular employment or profession. No men more need iron constitutions than
ministers and missionaries. "If ye offer the lame and the sick for
sacrifice, is it not evil? Offer it now to thy governor, will he be pleased
with thee, or accept thy person?" You have a daughter whom Providence may
call to the self-denials of missionary life. Do not nurse her in the lap of
enervating indulgence, and allow her to follow habits and fashions injurious
to health, and to become a "tender and delicate woman, that will not
adventure to set the sole of her foot upon the ground, for very delicateness
and tenderness;" and who will be at the sport of a morbid sensibility, or a
disordered nervous temperament. Will you be satisfied with such an offering
to the King of Sion? Will it be kindness to her, who may be called to suffer
much, and will want all the capacity for endurance, as well as action. which
can be acquired in a most thorough physical education? No: dedicate "to
Christ and the Church" your "young men that are strong," and your daughters
prepared to be companions for such in labors and sufferings for Christ.
Thus far of qualifications. We come now to speak more particularly of the
DUTIES OF PARENTS in training sons and daughters for the service of Christ.
1. Pray much, respecting your great work. "Who is sufficient for these
things?" well may you say. But says God, "my grace is sufficient for thee."
Keep near the throne of grace, with this great subject weighing upon your
spirit. Half your work is to be done in your closet. If you fail there, you
will fail in all you do out of it. You must have wisdom from above in
training servants for the Most High. Commune with God respecting the
particular case of each of your children. While you do this you will obtain
views of duty which human wisdom never can attain; and feel motives which
will be nowhere else rightly appreciated. In the final day, there will,
doubtless, be disclosures of transactions of Christian parents with God,
respecting their children, which will delightfully explain the secret of
their devotedness and usefulness. There will then be known more than can be
now, respecting the prayers of mothers especially. The mother of Mills had
some peculiar exercises in her closet, respecting him which help to account
for a remarkable usefulness. The interesting fact is stated in one of our
religious journals, that "of one hundred and twenty students in one of our
theological seminaries, more than one hundred had been borne by a mother's
prayers, and directed by a mother's counsels, to the Savior." See what
prayer can do. "Be instant in prayer."
2. Cultivate a tender sense of parental accountableness. God holds you
accountable for the character of your children, so far as fidelity in the
use of means is concerned. You are to "give account in the day of judgment
for what you do, or neglect to do, for the right formation of your
children's characters. You may so educate them, that, by the sanctifying
grace of God, they will be the instruments of salvation to hundreds, yea,
thousands; and through your neglect of them, hundreds, thousands, may be
lost, and their blood be required at your hands. You cannot divest yourself
of this responsibility. You must act under it, and meet it "in the
judgment." Remember this with godly fear, and yet "encourage yourself in the
Lord." If faithful in the closet, and in doing what you there acknowledge
your duty, you will find sustaining grace. And the thought will be
delightful, as well as solemn, "I am permitted to train these immortals to
glorify God in the salvation of souls."
3. Have a devoted spirit yourself. Your soul must be in health, and prosper;
must burn with love to Christ and his kingdom; and all your instructions be
enforced by a godly example, if you would lead your children to live
devotedly. The father of a large family, most of them pious, was asked,
"What means have you employed with your children?" "I have endeavored so to
live," said he, "as to show them that it was my own grand purpose to go to
heaven, and to take them along with me."
4. Give religious instruction EARLY. Watch opportunities for this, in every
stage of childhood. Early impressions will last through life, when later
ones fade away. Said an American Missionary, "I recollect particularly, that
once my mother came and stood by me as I sat in the door, and tenderly
talked to me of God and my soul's concerns; and her tears dropped upon my
head. That made me a Missionary." Cecil says," I had a pious mother, who
dropped things in my way. I could never rid myself of them. I was a
professed infidel, but then I liked to be an infidel in company rather than
alone. I was wretched by myself. Parental influence thus cleaves to a man;
it harasses him; it throws itself continually in his way." John Newton never
could divest himself of the impressions of his mother's instructions.
5. Seek the early conversion of your children. Regard every day of their
continuance out of Christ as an increase of their danger and guilt. "A
mother," says a Missionary, "who had brought up a large family, all of whom
had become hopefully pious, was asked what means she had used for their
conversion. She replied, 'I have felt that if not converted before seven or
eight years of age, they would probably be lost; and when they have
approached that age, have been in agony lest they should pass it impenitent;
and have gone to the Lord with my anguish. He has not turned away my prayers
nor his mercy from me.'" Pray for this: "Arise, cry out in the night; in the
beginning of the watches pour out thine heart like water before the face of
the Lord; lift up thy hands towards him, for the life of thy young
children." Hope for the early bestowment of divine grace from such promises
as this: "I will pour my Spirit upon thy seed, and my blessing upon thine
offspring: and they shall spring up as among the grass, and as willows by
the water courses. One shall say, I am the Lord's; and another shall call
himself by the name of Jacob; and another shall subscribe with his hand unto
the Lord and surname himself by the name of Israel" (Isa 44:3-5). The
history of some families is a delightful fulfillment of this promise. Young
hearts are the best in which to lay, deep and broad, the foundations of
usefulness. There is is no hope that your child will do anything for Christ
till you can see him at the foot of the cross, repenting, believing,
devoting himself.
It seems supposed by some, that religion cannot enter a child's mind: that
it demands maturity of years to "repent and believe the Gospel." A Christian
child, therefore, seems often regarded as a prodigy; and grace in a young
soul is a dispensation of divine mercy too unusual to be expected in the use
of common means. "Parents," said a mother, "labor and pray prospectively for
the conversion of their children." We have seen parents weeping over
deceased children, of four, five, six, seven years, who seemed to feel no
solicitude whether they had died in a safe spiritual state nor self-reproach
for neglect to labor for their conversion. It is an interesting fact, and a
serious one in its bearing upon parental neglect, that children under the
age of four years have been known to feel deep convictions of sin against
God, and of their ruined state; and to sorrow for sin, believe on Christ,
fix their affections on God, and to exhibit all the evidences of grace seen
in persons of adult years. The late Mrs. Huntington, writing to her son,
says her biographer, "speaks of having a distinct remembrance of a solemn
consultation in her mind, when about three years old, whether it was best to
be a Christian then or not, and of having come to the decision that it was
not." The biographies of Janeway, and numerous others, forbid the idea that
religion in a young heart is a miracle, and show that parents have reason to
be anxious lest their young children die without hope, as, well as to be
encouraged to seek their early conversion.
We should be cautious of unreasonable distrust of apparent conversions of
children. Watch over the little disciple affectionately, faithfully. His
tender years plead for more careful and tender protection. Give him not
occasion to say, "I have been neglected, because supposed too young to be a
Christian." True, parents and pastors have been often disappointed in
children seemingly converted. But the day of judgment may reveal that there
have been more cases of undetected deception and hypocrisy in adults, than
disappointments respecting children supposed pious. Childhood is more
guileless than manhood; sooner, perhaps always, throws off the mask, if it
be but the mask, of religion; and is again open to conviction–perhaps
becomes converted. Manhood, more cautious, deceitful, adventurous in false
profession, wears the mask, shuts out conviction, cries, "peace and safety,"
and goes on decently, solemnly, formally, down to hell.
Desire the early conversion of your children, that they may have the longest
possible time in this world to serve Christ. If "the dew of our youth" be
devoted to God, advancing years are sure to be marked with proportionate
maturity of Christian character and fitness for more efficient labors for
Christ.
6. Maintain familiar Christian intercourse with your children. Converse with
them as freely and affectionately on religious subjects as on others. If you
are a warmhearted and prosperous Christian, you will do this, naturally and
easily. Let religious intimacy be interwoven with your whole family habits.
You will thus know how to counsel, caution, reprove, encourage; what
advances they make; what the "reason of the hope that is in them;" for what
particular department of service for Christ they are fitted. And if they die
early, or before you, then you will have the consolation of having watched
and known the progress of their preparation to "depart and be with Christ."
7. Place and keep before the mind of your child, as the great object for
which he should live, the glory of God and the salvation of men. We do much
to give direction to the mind, and form the character of the man, by placing
an object, for life, before him. Men of the world know and act on this
principle. So should the Christian. The object above-named is the only one
worthy of an immortal and renewed soul, and prepares the way for the noblest
elevation of character: it will raise him above living to himself and
constrain him to fidelity in his Lord's service. Teach him to lay at the
foot of the cross, attainments, eminence, influence, honor, wealth—all
things; and to live in the desire, "Father, glorify thy name."
8. Choose instructors for your children with great care. Know to whose
influence you commit the son or daughter of your vows. You have a great and
sacred object to accomplish. The teachers of your children must be such as
will aid you in that object. Correct moral character in a teacher is not
enough. This is often allied with most dangerous religious opinions. Your
child should be placed under the care of a self-dedicated teacher, who will
feel in relation to his charge, "I am to aid this parent in training a
servant for Christ." In your choice of a school, or seminary of learning,
never be governed merely by its reputation as literary, fashionable,
popular; irrespective of the possibility that its atmosphere may have no
vitality from decided religious influence—may even be poisoned by erroneous
religious views in the instructors. Respecting sending a daughter to a
Catholic convent for education said a judicious pastor to a parishioner, "If
you do not wish your daughter to be burned, you must not put her into the
fire." A
widow was offered the education of one of her sons at a university where
prevailed the influence of Unitarianism. She declined the offer, trusting in
God to enable her to accomplish it in a safer situation. Her firmness and
faith were rewarded with success. A young lady was placed under the care of
a teacher who was not pious. When her mind was deeply interested and anxious
on religious subjects; the idea, "what will my teacher think of me," and the
dread of her indifference, perhaps contempt influenced her decision, and she
grieved away the Spirit of God. Christian parent, your prayers, your best
efforts may all be frustrated by the influence of a teacher who has no
religion.
9. Be cautious of defeating your own efforts for the spiritual welfare of
your children. Neglect of some essential duty, though you may perform many
others, will do this. Prayer without instruction will not do; nor
instruction without a right example; nor prayer in the family without
earnest wrestlings in the closet; nor all these together, without watching
over them, to keep them out of temptation. Be afraid of indulging them in
vain amusements. A mother once went to a meeting of her female friends, and
asked their supplications for her daughter, whom it appeared she had
permitted, at that very time, to attend a dancing party; and justified
herself in the rashness and inconsistency of the permission, by reference to
her own early habits of seeking amusements. If parents will permit their
children to run directly into "the snare of the devil," let them, at least,
not mock God by entreating Christians to pray that He will take care of them
there. If they do, let them not wonder if their children live "the servants
of sin," and die the "vessels of wrath."
Guard yourself against setting them the example of fitfulness in religion:
now, all fervor and bustle; then, languid, having scarce the breath of
spiritual life. A considerate son or daughter will say, "My father's
religion is one of fits and starts, of times and seasons. It is everything
now, but it will soon be nothing, as before." If you would have your
children serve Christ in uniform activity, do so yourself. Be afraid of that
periodical religion, which all at once breaks out from the midst of
worldliness and unfaithfulness, and in which feeling shows itself like "a
deceitful brook;" or, as some author has expressed it, "like a mountain
torrent, swollen by spring floods, foaming, roaring, dashing along; seeming
a mighty and permanent river; but which, after a few days, sinks away,
becomes a mere rivulet, or comes to nothing; leaving a channel dry, rocky,
silent as death." The deepest piety is like the deep, full river; noiseless,
fed by living springs; never disappointing; always flowing, fertilizing,
beautifying. Be of that humble, steadfast, heartfelt, industrious, active
cast of Christian character, by which your children shall see that the
service of Christ is the great business of life, and be constrained to enter
into it "with all their hearts."
10. Be cautious of countenancing your children in living "after the manner
of this world;" in seeking its honors, entering into its ambitious strifes,
its secularizing habits and fashions. The children of pious parents must not
be found among the votaries of fashion; emulating their display and useless
accomplishments. "How is Christ thus robbed of his own?" said a Christian
parent. "I have observed many instances of parents, exemplary, faithful, and
judicious, with their children, till perhaps fifteen years old; and then the
desire to have them associate with distinguished people, and the dread of
having them singular, would cause them to turn right about and dress them
like worldly people, and even court their intimacy for them." And parents
have smarted severely under the rod of divine chastisement; been mortified,
yea, had their hearts broken for such sins, in their disastrous consequences
to the character of their children.
11. Be cautious what views and feelings you foster in your children
respecting PROPERTY. The love of property, in families called Christian, is
one of the greatest hindrances to the spread of the Gospel. The systems of
Christian benevolence are all embarrassed, every year, from this cause.
Parents set their children the example of "making haste to be rich:" as
though this were all for which God made them. They give a pittance to the
cause of Christ. And sons and daughters follow in the same course; even
after having professed to know the way of holy boldness, and said, "we are
not our own." Facts might be mentioned by which would make any true-hearted
Christian blush for the church of God. Teach your children to remember what
God has said: "The silver is mine, and the gold is mine." Remind them that
you and they are stewards, going to give up your account. Treat the
acquirement of property as of importance only that you may do good, and
honor Christ. Let not your children expect you to make them heirs to large
possessions. Let them see you annually giving, "as God has prospered you,"
to all the great objects of Christian benevolence. They will follow your
example when you have gone to your reward. To leave your children the
inheritance of your own devoted spirit and benevolent habits, will be
infinitely more desirable than to bequeath to them "thousands of gold and
silver." Such examples we have seen.
As an aid to this, every parent should teach his family economy, as a matter
of religious principle. Early gain over their consciences to the side of a
benevolent, spirited economy. Teach them that "it is more blessed to give
than to receive:" to write "holiness to the Lord." upon their pocket money,
instead of spending it for useless or hurtful indulgences; to study
simplicity and economy in dress, furniture, style of living; and to regard
all useless expenditure of money as sin against God.
12. Be cautious of frustrating your efforts for the spiritual good of your
children, by wrong habits in your family. Levity in conversation; dull and
hasty formality in family worship; worldly conversation on the Sabbath;
censorious remarks, we fear, keep whole families of children in the neglect
of religion. Gaurd also against gloom, sanctimoniousness, moroseness. Some
professing parents seem to have just religion enough to make them unhappy,
and to have all the unloveliness in religious temperament and habits which
naturally comes of having consciences irritated by their unfaithful "manner
of life." There is a heavenly cheerfulness and sweetness in some Christians,
which declares to their families that religion is a blessed as well as
serious reality; and gives them an influence and a power to win them to the
service of Christ inestimable. Cultivate this. Let "the love of God, shed
abroad in your hearts by the Holy Ghost," continually prove to your children
that religion is the source of the truest enjoyment, of the richest
blessings.
13. If you would have your children obedient servants of Christ, you must
govern, them well. Subordination is one grand law of His kingdom. Implicit
obedience to your authority will well accord with the submission your child
must render to Christ. How must the habit of insubordination and self-will
increase the sorrows of his Christian conflict; render him often unamiable
and uncomfortable in his social and domestic relations; and in the church an
unmanageable member, or an unlovely minister; or, if in the missionary work,
an occasion of trials, frequent and bitter, to all his associates. Said a
minister, respecting a departed member of his church, for whom he hoped the
best he could, "he was one of the stubbornest oaks that ever grew upon Mount
Zion."
A child, well-governed, when he becomes a Christian, is ready to "serve the
Lord Jesus Christ, with all humility of mind" in any work to which he is
called; and will work kindly, harmoniously, and efficiently with others. He
enters his Lord's field, saying, "Lo Lo, I come to do thy will, O my God."
He will have that heavenly spirit, "the meekness and gentleness of Christ,''
and as he goes forward from duty to duty, will be able to say with David,
"my soul is as a weaned child:" "I delight to do thy will, O my God!" And
with such a spirit he will find precious satisfaction in a life of
successful labor for his Lord on earth, and "in hope of the glory of God."
That, by a right government, your children may be fitted to serve Christ,
study the manner in which a holy God governs. His is the government of a
Father; persuasive without weakness; in love and mercy, and yet in
accordance with justice; patient and forbearing, yet strict in the rebuke
and punishment of offences. He loves his children, but chastens them, for
their profit; employs encouragements to obedience, but in his determination
to be obeyed, he is firm as his own everlasting throne. He gives his
children every reason to fear offending him; still he assures that to love
and serve him shall be to them the beginning of heaven on earth.
We have incidentally spoken of the interest of MOTHERS in this subject.
Maternal duty and influence, in truth, lie at the foundation of the whole
work of educating children for the service of Christ. A Christian mother may
more richly bless the world, through her children, than many who have sat on
thrones. Mothers! Divine Providence places your children under your peculiar
care, at that period of life when first and eternal impressions will be
made.
Let your influence be "sanctified by the word of God and prayer;" and
consecrated to the high object of educating sons and daughters for "the work
of Christ."
BRETHREN IN THE SACRED OFFICE OF THE MINISTRY:
Have we done what we could, or estimated our responsibilities, relative to
this subject, as we ought? Have our labors been conducted with sufficient
reference to our younger hearers, and their preparations to serve ''the-Lord
of the harvest?" A minister should acquaint himself with the children of his
charge, and know what their parents are doing for their good, and their
preparation to serve the Lord Jesus Christ. We must act steadily and
efficiently on the minds of parents; preach to them; converse with them;
prompt their consciences respecting their duties. We should sit down with
them in the retirement of their homes, and ask them such questions as these:
"What are your views of your duty to God respecting your children? What are
your expectations relative to their future usefulness to the kingdom of God
on earth? Are you fulfilling your duty with your eyes on the judgment-seat
of Christ? What means do you employ that you may realize your expectations?
Do you wish to see the glory of God, and the conversion of this lost world,
aided by "the children God has graciously given you?" Such inquiries, made
in the affectionate seriousness of watchmen for souls, will come home to
hearts in which there is grace; will awaken to thoughtfulness, and quicken
to activity. We shall assist parents to see how they and their families
stand related to God, and to this revolted world. And if we would promote
their personal prosperity in the divine life, there is no way in which,
better than in this, we can stimulate them to their high and solemn duties.
CHRISTIAN PARENTS — Our children have too long been educated without that
direct and single reference to the glory of Christ, and the good of this
fallen world, which becomes us. Their dedication to the work of Christ, too
has been exceedingly imperfect. For this reason, among others, the work of
evangelizing the world has gone on slowly. To address you in the language of
a Christian parent, whose feelings are deeply interested in this
subject—"There is much said, and justly, of the duty of Christians to hold
their property consecrated to Christ; and it is often remarked, that till
they act upon higher principles; the world cannot be converted." It is true;
but our delinquency here is not the basis of our unfaithfulness. It is to be
feared that many who feel their obligations respecting their property,
forget that they are answerable to Christ, to the Church, and to the
heathen, for their children. Thousands of gold and silver are wanted to
carry on the work of evangelizing the world; but a thousand sanctified minds
will do more than millions of money. And, when the children of pious parents
shall, with the spirit of true Christians, give themselves for the saving of
the world, there will be no more any 'dark places, full of the habitations
of cruelty.'
"Has a greater duty ever rested on men than that which binds them to educate
their children for the benefit of the world? Were this our constant;
prominent desire; it would give definiteness to our instructions and
prayers; we should watch against every habit or influence which would hinder
the accomplishment of our wishes. Our children would be taught
self-government, self-denial, industry, and effort. We should not be guilty
of such a miserable wavering between Christ and the world. Every parent
would know for what he was training his children. Every child would know for
what he was living. His conscience would feel the pressure of duty. He could
not be faithless to the object set before him without violating his
conscience. Would not such education be owned and blessed of the Spirit of
God, and our children be converted early? Then their powers would all be
given to God."'
Christian parents, "whatsoever our hand findeth to do, let us do it with our
might." The pupilage of our children is passing away on the swift wings of
time. Let us enter into the spirit of the first propagators of Christianity,
and take our children along with us in the labors of love. Let our aim be at
higher attainments in piety. "The feeble" should become "as David; and David
as the Son of God." It must cease to be, that a few men and women only, in a
century, shall appear, with the spirit of Taylor, Brainerd, Martyn, and of
Livingston. There ought to be Christians of their standard in every church.
Yea, why should not every church be composed of such; so that the places of
their abode should become "too strait for them;" and they, with "the love of
Christ constraining them," go forth, in the untiring spirit of Christian
enterprise, over the whole face of the earth. With such pillars and
"polished stones," the temple of the Lord would indeed be beautiful. Blessed
with such supporters of the cause of Christ at home, the Church will be
strong for her Lord's work. Blessed with such messengers of salvation to the
heathen, the work of evangelizing the nations will go rapidly on. As they go
forth and proclaim the Savior's love, there will break forth from all "the
dark places" the cry, "How beautiful upon the mountains are the feet of him
that bringeth good tidings, that publisheth peace; that bringeth good
tidings of good, that publisheth salvation; that saith unto Zion, Thy God
reigneth!" (Isa 52:7).
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